One day, my poor, college-student hubby and self decided to gather our pennies and splurge on ice cream. We dug through the couch, cleaned out the bottom of our drawers, and scoured the pockets of every jacket and coat. As we came together, I opened my hand to show my husband what I'd gathered, and expected him to add what he'd collected to my fist full of coins.
He reached out to take my collection.
"No." I closed my fist, growled, gave him a dark look, and held out my hand again.
Confused, he reach out again, laughing.
I hid the coins, grunted angrily, and offered my palm once more.
A third time he went to grab everything, laughing opening now--which only increased my irritation.
When I pulled my hand back a third time, spewing smoke through my ears, he asked what was going on and what I wanted. We had a simple, sweet discussion about what each of us had expected, and this silly little misunderstanding came to a close. Still, it's an experience we've never forgotten.
Communication.
This is a two part conundrum: words & actions.
If we communicate clearly with those about us (and kindly), we are much more likely to find happiness. Expectations can't be met if they're never expressed. Openness is the key to good relationships, and good relationships are key to lasting happiness. More importantly, we have the power to create happiness in others by offering a kind word, a sincere compliment, a smile. Never underestimate the influence you have on those about you.
What can you do TODAY to spread a little joy?
He reached out to take my collection.
"No." I closed my fist, growled, gave him a dark look, and held out my hand again.
Confused, he reach out again, laughing.
I hid the coins, grunted angrily, and offered my palm once more.A third time he went to grab everything, laughing opening now--which only increased my irritation.
When I pulled my hand back a third time, spewing smoke through my ears, he asked what was going on and what I wanted. We had a simple, sweet discussion about what each of us had expected, and this silly little misunderstanding came to a close. Still, it's an experience we've never forgotten.
Communication.
This is a two part conundrum: words & actions.
If we communicate clearly with those about us (and kindly), we are much more likely to find happiness. Expectations can't be met if they're never expressed. Openness is the key to good relationships, and good relationships are key to lasting happiness. More importantly, we have the power to create happiness in others by offering a kind word, a sincere compliment, a smile. Never underestimate the influence you have on those about you.
What can you do TODAY to spread a little joy?
