How to Find Happiness A-Z: I

This above all: to thine own self be true, 

And it must follow, as the night the day, 

Thou canst not then be false to any man.

                                                       Hamlet Act 1 scene 3    

Ah, the infamous quote we hear time and time again. As a writer, this is some of the prime advice you receive--not to imitate anyone else, but to write until you've developed your own voice. I call this a form of Integrity.

According to dictionary.com, integrity is:

1. adherence to moral and ethical principles; soundness of moral character; honesty. 
2. the state of being whole, entire, or undiminished: to preserve the integrity of the empire.
3. a sound, unimpaired, or perfect condition: the integrity of a ship's hull.

Some people can get away with lie upon lie, even to themselves--but then, what are they left with? 

"I'm a size six." *RIP* "Uh, they must have not sewn that seam very well." 

That's right, exposure. =)

Society in general seems to be suffering from a lack of integrity--people who embezzle from work, cheating spouses, employees who give less than their best for a paid day of work, people who cheat on tests (let's pray they don't become doctors!), even those who lie under oath or omit the truth to promote their own agenda. 

How do we heal this rampant evil and begin to mend society? One person at a time. Ourselves. One family at a time. Our families. One relationship of trust at a time--the ones we treasure most, the ones that will bring us the greatest happiness. 

Trust=freedom. Freedom brings happiness.

To thine own self be true, eh? And while we're speaking about honesty, what is the stupidest lie you've ever told or heard? (I love the ones that come from little kids!)